| I have worked with Juveniles for the past six years | | | | different times and our children are faced with many |
| as of April 1st, 2010. Working with them has been | | | | challenges that previous generations have not had to |
| quite a rewarding experience with many highs and | | | | deal with. How can we expect these children to |
| lows. When I think of some of the crimes that they | | | | make better choices when they have no one to lead |
| have committed, it leads me to believe that maybe if | | | | them. The definition of a father means to guide, |
| their fathers have been an active part of theirs lives | | | | teach, and protect. When the father is inactive in a |
| that it is a strong possibility that they wouldn't be | | | | child's life he or she has to find ways to protect |
| serving time in a Juvenile Jail. | | | | themselves. At that point, they begin to make poor |
| I do realize that we have some youth that come | | | | choices such as joining gangs, hanging out with out of |
| from two parent homes but over 80% of our youth | | | | control peers. Attention from the wrong persons |
| come from broken single parent homes. I am | | | | result in lost lives. |
| currently working a book on my experiences with | | | | I say lost lives because some of our incarcerated |
| working with Juveniles and I surveyed fifty students | | | | youth will be retained until 2015. They will miss out on |
| to see what type of relationship did they have with | | | | those precious teen years that cannot be replaced. It |
| their fathers and these were my findings: 34% had a | | | | is my sincere hope that Fathers will take time to be |
| poor relationship with their dads. Since the highest | | | | dads to their children because it is not solely the |
| percentage fell in the poor category my fears were | | | | mothers responsibility to rear the child and a mother |
| confirmed. | | | | cannot take your place. For those fathers who are |
| I am not naive to believe that peer pressure is not a | | | | inactive in their children's lives, it is time to take your |
| factor. I know very well that it is. These are | | | | rightful place. And the time is now. |