| #1 | | | | He’s not going to beprepared for all these |
| Dear Jim | | | | questions so he’ll have to think fast - make up |
| I keep running into guys who say they just | | | | lieson-the-spot. One of them bound to be ridiculous |
| don’t have the money.When I hear that I | | | | and thus easy to spot.When it comes call him on it. |
| start to lose my resolve. What can I do? | | | | It’s time to shame him and shame him good |
| First, you need to be absolutely convinced in your | | | | That’s ridiculous. |
| own mind beforeyou even start the call - that you | | | | How naïve do you think I am? |
| deserve to be paid and you’re goingto get | | | | Who do you think you’re kidding? |
| the money. Everybody has it within themselves to | | | | Do you handle all your business affairs as |
| fight for whatis theirs. Think of your past | | | | pathetically as this? |
| accomplishments and get yourself pumpedup ahead | | | | Do the other businesses you deal with know |
| of time. It’s essential that you to come | | | | you’re in sucha bad situation? |
| across as strong anddetermined on the phone, | | | | If he is having trouble paying some of his bills |
| otherwise the debtor will sense your weakness.And | | | | it’s likely the other peoplehe deals with |
| you can bet that he will try to use that weakness | | | | aren’t aware of his situation, because he |
| against you. | | | | knows they won’tstand for the kind of crap |
| When he says he doesn’t have the money to | | | | he is pulling on you, so he doesn’t try it |
| pay you, start asking himquestions about his financial | | | | onthem.. And you shouldn’t let him pull it on |
| situation. Is he paying his employees thesedays, or | | | | you, either. |
| are they working for vouchers? Has he made any | | | | He wants you to feel sorry for him. By creating a |
| major purchasesin the last 60 days? Could he get | | | | situation where hehas to lie, and then making him |
| approved for a loan? What kind of cardoes he drive? | | | | explain his lies he may begin to realizejust how |
| What’s his average annual income? | | | | pathetic he sounds to others. |