Protecting Your Child From Cyber-Bullying

Worried about cyber-bullying? With all the recentauthority figure. Encourage your child to consider how
news about bullying that ends in tragedy, it can beit would feel to be bullied before they attack another
frightening to think that your child may be the victimchild online.
of cyber-bullying without you even finding out thatKeep The Computer In A Public Area
something was wrong. Luckily, there are some simpleKeep your computer in a public area if at all possible
things that you can do that will help you protect yourso you can see your child while they are online. If
child from potential cyber-bullying and deal with it wellyour child has trouble, they will frequently show it
if it happens.with body language and attitude long before they will
Listen To Your Childbe ready to talk about it. You don't need to stand
One of the best ways to make sure your child isover their shoulder or watch what they do, but
doing alright is by simply paying attention to whathaving a basic awareness of how they behave when
they tell you. If you child mentions an uncomfortableat a computer can help you know in advance if a
internet moment or incident in passing, listen to whatproblem is coming.
they say. Try not to get too overbearing, but makeRespond To Problems
time to sit down and talk about it whenever they'reIf your child comes to you with a cyber-bullying
ready.problem, take it seriously. Take any steps you need
Watch Your Child's Signalsto take to make sure the bullying stops, and don't be
You know your teen better than anyone, so keep anafraid to call in help from the school or the police if
eye out for behavior that may seem sullen, moody,you feel it is necessary. If your teen is having a lot
or out of character. While normal teenage problemsof trouble, consider taking them to a counselor to
all lead to these behaviors, you will recognize adeal with the emotional backlash of being bullied.
severe issue in your child by catching behavior thatTry To Understand
seems out of character for them.It can be really easy to minimize the problems a child
Talk To Your Child About Cyber-bullyingor teen is going through when seen through the eyes
One of the best things you can do to make sureof a few more years of experience. Remember that
your child is able to deal with a bullying situation onlinethings that may seem minor to you can be major
or offline is through simply going over what they planproblems that will leave your child feeling miserable.
to do if something happens. Make sure your child hasTreat your child's problems with the seriousness and
an adult they would feel comfortable telling if aimportance your child gives them, especially when
cyber-bullying situation got out of hand, andyou talk to them. Make sure they know you are
remember that adult does not have to be you ifavailable to help if they need it.
they'd prefer to go to a teacher or other type of