Sometimes Staying Safe Means Not Being the Hero

The central character in many fictional stories is anthe burglar away without having to confront him
average man turned hero. On TV, in films, and inyourself. While television heroes never seem to face
books, you'll see people "just like you" saving the dayany consequences of chasing after the bad guy, you
by surviving extreme situations, rescuing helplessmight.
children, or standing up to attackers or bullies. As aIf you do hear a strange noise in the home, your
nation, we value self-reliance and self-sufficiency, andfirst instinct will probably be to investigate, but don't
this is reflected in the heroes portrayed in the media.feel too pressured to do so. Instead, retreat to a
Nevertheless, there are some areas of real life wheresafe place. If you can get out of the house, leave
it won't pay to be the hero. In fact, trying to be aand call the police. If you can't, head in the opposite
hero in these situations can be quite dangerous; itdirection as the noises, and call the police. You don't
may even get you killed. When it comes to defendingwant to surprise and confront a burglar, who may be
yourself, it is critical to know when to walk away,armed and whose reactions are unpredictable.
when to fight back, and when to wait for help.If you are in a situation in which you have no choice
As a homeowner, we all want to believe that we canbut to defend yourself, such as coming eye to eye
remain in complete control over what goes on in ourwith an attacker, and you feel you are in imminent
homes, especially when it comes to safety anddanger, never confront the burglar without something
security. Unfortunately, we must accept that thereto fight back with. Ideally, this will be a canister of
are some things that are beyond our control. There ispepper spray, a stun gun, a TASER device, or some
absolutely no surefire way to ensure that burglars willother device designed explicitly for self defense. If no
stay out of your house. Still, the ideal is to avoidsuch products are nearby, grab anything you can see
emergency situations whenever possible. This meansto protect yourself.
taking the necessary precautions to protect you,If you must confront an attacker, be as cautious as
your family, and your belongings from harm. Takepossible. Sometimes, the smartest move is realizing
simple steps like improving outdoor lighting andthat you cannot handle the situation alone. Although
installing a dummy camera to ward off would-bestories you see on TV and in the movies paint a
burglars.picture of regular people turned into heroes, this is
Consider installing other devices, such as door andnot always realistic. Sometimes, protecting yourself
window alarms, to scare away any burglar who doesand your family means not trying to be the hero, but
try to enter your home. It's always better to scarecalling the police for help.