| Whether it's physically or mentally, no one likes to be | | | | In the case of mental abuse, again, I would suggest |
| abused. Here are some tips in which you can try to | | | | you stay patient and on top of that, stay positive.For |
| stop being the victim of domestic abuse. | | | | example, if your mother keeps on saying negative |
| Be patient and stay quiet | | | | things to you, which may have made you think your |
| It does take a lot of strength to be patient, but if | | | | mother hates you. Look back and think again. It could |
| you lose control over yourself, you could get abused | | | | be that your mother is trying to make you work or |
| even more.You do not want to make the offender | | | | study harder, so that you can have a better and |
| even angrier. But, in the case of rape, when you | | | | brighter future than hers. Maybe her way of telling |
| know that there's someone out there who will help | | | | you doesn't sound right, but it is most likely that, |
| you, scream like never before and ask for help. You | | | | when she was younger, she used to be treated the |
| may be punched and kicked before help comes but, | | | | same way, which made her work harder. Some |
| at least, you know someone will come and put the | | | | people get motivated by trash talks - believe it or |
| madness to an end. | | | | not, some people take trash talks as a challenge and |
| Learn martial arts | | | | they work harder to prove the trash talkers wrong. |
| If you are scared things could get worse if you tell | | | | Maybe, your mother thinks or hopes you are one of |
| your school or go to the police, learn self-defending | | | | these people. |
| skills such as Kung Fu, Karate or Taekwondo or | | | | Let it out |
| anything you think will suit you best. You don't | | | | Tell someone about how you feel, someone who |
| necessarily need a teacher to teach you, a book in | | | | you can trust and hopefully can help help you get |
| the library would be good enough if you can't afford | | | | through your problem. If you keep your pain to |
| paying for lessons and you can practice in your free | | | | yourself, it will only eat you and will only make you |
| time. At least, you can be prepared when you're | | | | more depressed. This will especially be bad if you're a |
| about to get attacked. Plus, it prepares you for bullies | | | | student as it will make you lose your concentration in |
| as well. When it gets a bit over the top for you and | | | | your studies, which will lead to your grades falling, |
| you are ready to tell someone else, go to the police | | | | meaning you are only letting the situation get worse. |
| and beg them not to send you back home. They will | | | | Whatever you do, I wish you well and hope this |
| take you seriously and will protect you from the | | | | article has helped. |
| abuser. | | | | |